Kind words do not cost much. They never blister the tongue or lips. They make other people good-natured. They also produce their own image on men’s souls, and a beautiful image it is. — Blaise Pascal


Sunday, January 29

We must not only do that which is good, but we must cleave to it. All our duty towards one another is summed up in one word, love. ~Matthew Henry

I have been resting up from a thirty day intense stay with my in-laws.  They have had to make a big move and under go a massive change of life-style. It was a month of 24-7 and training people to take care of my father-in-law who is bed-ridden.  I came home physically and emotionally exhausted. I don't know how people without the indwelling of the Holy Spirit handle these kind of things, because it was touch and go towards the end.

When I let my Pastor know what was happening before leaving, he said something to me that really ministered to me throughout the time I was there. "Serve them well."  That really kept me going. We are supposed to honor one another and respect one another.  It wasn't hard for me to respect my father-in-law and mother-in-law.  I love them dearly!  There were other people that were involved in their care, however.  This is where God's grace and your faith have to come in. I failed at times and had to ask for forgiveness. Thank you, Father God, that Your mercy and loving kindness is new every morning!


Colossians 3:12-13a, “Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another…” (ESV)

This is the definition of love.  I could only walk in God's kind of love when I submitted myself to the Lord, resisted the flesh, and the enemy.  It was a test of endurance by the end of the month; I felt alone and without any help.  I had to continually remind myself of this: the Holy Spirit is our Comforter, Counselor, Helper, Advocate, Intercessor, Strengthener, and Standby.   I was NOT alone!  He is my strength!


It is good to be home and to be fed spiritually. I do believe I "served them well".  I made mistakes, and was forgiven.  I did my best, and God knows my weaknesses.  He is showing me them as I walk this walk of faith. He expects me to correct them, and not continue making them. I reckon the old man dead, and the new man is taking ascendancy as He shines His light in the darkness on a daily basis.

2 comments:

{nikki} said...

You did serve them well! Neana positively glows when she talks about you. Thank you for the gift of taking such good care of my grandparents. May you be forever blessed by serving Him. I love you!

Debbie Wright said...

Thank you, Nikki. Neana has become more like a Mother to me than my Mom ever was. I truly treasure the time I had with Pippa and will always love them both as my parents. God truly blessed me with them.